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鈥楾here Was a Better Fate for Her': Remembering 18-Year-Old Who Died From Coronavirus

By Christina A. Samuels 鈥 April 21, 2020 4 min read
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Yasmin Pe帽a had artistic talents in abundance: She danced, she drew, she sang, she sculpted.

But the bubbly high school student鈥檚 heart was in fashion design, which she wanted to pursue professionally. A senior at Waterbury Arts Magnet School in Waterbury, Conn. she had even designed her own prom dress: a high hem in the front, low in the back, and purple, her favorite color.

Yasmin, 18, died from COVID-19 on April 12, a rare young victim of the novel coronavirus. As of April 20, only two deaths have been recorded among children and youth ages 10 to 19 in Connecticut since the pandemic reached the United States.

But Yasmin had a vulnerability to the coronavirus she didn鈥檛 know about: Only when she was in the hospital, after weeks of illness, did her family learn she had lupus, a disease caused by an overactive immune system. People with autoimmune disorders are at higher risk of severe complications from the coronavirus. Eczema鈥攍inked in many cases to an overactive immune system鈥攔uns in the family, and Yasmin had it as well, said her older sister, Madeline Pe帽a. But otherwise, Yasmin was 鈥渢he youngest, healthiest, most outgoing of all of us,鈥 she said. In addition to Madeline, Yasmin had another sister and two brothers.

鈥淚 know a lot of kids around her age or maybe younger are not concerned when it comes to the virus,鈥 said Madeline Pe帽a, 21, who is a student at Naugatuck Valley Community College. Yasmin planned to follow her sister there, and then continue to a four-year university.

鈥淏ut you have to be concerned. It鈥檚 a virus that doesn鈥檛 ask what age you are鈥攊t infects you no matter what you are,鈥 Pe帽a said.

鈥楳issing Out on That Hug鈥

Yasmin鈥檚 death is a sorrowful addition to an already disrupted school year for students at her school, which has been closed to in-person classes since mid-March. After learning the news, the school system started reaching out to faculty and students on Monday. Counselors have also followed up with additional phone calls to students, said Nicholas Albini, the principal of Waterbury Arts Magnet.

鈥淯nfortunately, everything becomes a little bit more impersonalized than it was when we were in direct contact,鈥 Albini said. 鈥淓verybody鈥檚 alone. That鈥檚 just an unfortunate product of this disease. We鈥檙e missing out on that hug we鈥檇 like to give, but this is what we have.鈥

Edwin Cortes, a high school senior at the magnet school who called Yasmin his 鈥渟ister,鈥 said that he learned of her death from a school psychologist.

鈥淵asmin had a care for people like no other, she always had a smile like no other,鈥 Cortes said. 鈥淪he would give me a smile every day.鈥

鈥淵asmin wasn鈥檛 someone who deserved to go out the way she did,鈥 Cortes said. 鈥淚 think there was a fate better for her. This was not her fate.鈥

Yasmin first started experiencing chest pains in late January, her sister said, but after a checkup, she was told it was linked to anxiety.

鈥淪he still wanted to go to school. She didn鈥檛 want to drop everything just because of some chest pains,鈥 Pe帽a said.

And she also wanted to push through and participate in the senior theatrical showcase in late February, 鈥淭he Complete Works of William Shakespeare (Abridged),鈥 where she was an ensemble member.

Marianna Vagnini Dadamo, a teacher who had taught Yasmin in chamber choir during her freshman and sophomore years, marveled at how the shy student had blossomed over the years.

鈥淪he was the quietest, mousiest, barely could open her mouth [student],鈥 Vagnini Dadamo said, 鈥渂ut so sensitive to what we were after and what we were trying to achieve as a choir.鈥

And truly kind, Vagnini Dadamo said: 鈥淪he would ask me how I was. And that鈥檚 not an unusual question, but it鈥檚 an unusual question when a student asks a teacher, and you really get a sense that they really want to know. She had that kind of kindness.鈥

Vagnini Dadamo said that Yasmin is not the first student she has lost. Because of that, she said, she always tries to leave students with a positive message, which is what she did with Yasmin.

鈥淚 told her how fantastic she was, how funny she was in the show. And I鈥檓 grateful that was my last interaction with her,鈥 she said.

Rollercoaster Illness

After the show, Yasmin grew more ill, with a cough and fever. Her family decided she should stay at home to recuperate. In mid-March, however, her mother saw her sitting at the kitchen table, holding her head in her hands. Yasmin told her mother she couldn鈥檛 breathe, her sister said.

They took her to the hospital and she was admitted that day. Around the same time, Connecticut schools were shutting down school buildings.

Yasmin鈥檚 time in the hospital was a rollercoaster, Pe帽a said. At times, she said, her younger sister was responsive to her family during video chats. At other times, her blood pressure dipped and doctors explained that her condition was grave.

On April 12鈥擡aster Sunday鈥擯e帽a said the family was told Yasmin was off the ventilator.

鈥淲e were so happy, on Easter, the day of Jesus鈥 resurrection. It was like a sign from God,鈥 she said.

But a few hours later, during dialysis, Yasmin died.

鈥淚f there鈥檚 one thing I would want everyone who reads this to know, it would be don鈥檛 leave anything for tomorrow, you know? This is a virus that is trying to separate everyone. This is a virus that is trying to destroy families,鈥 Pe帽a said.

The district is hoping to remember Yasmin at what would have been her high school graduation, though it has still not decided how it will hold the ceremony. Schools are currently closed until May 20th. In a normal year, graduation would be in June. Waterbury Arts Magnet has 110 seniors expected to graduate this year.

鈥淲e have our sights on recognizing Yasmin at graduation,鈥 Albini said. 鈥淲e just don鈥檛 know the venue yet, whether it will be totally digital or totally remote, but certainly she will be remembered.鈥

A version of this article appeared in the May 13, 2020 edition of 91直播 as Remembering 18-Year-Old Who Died From Coronavirus

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